PURPOSE:
The purpose of the survey is to learn more about what characteristics people tend to prefer in potential partners. To examine this issue we will be asking you a few questions about yourself, and then we will ask you about your preferences regarding characteristics of potential partners. Of necessity, some of the questions are quite personal. Your responses to these questions will be completely anonymous since we do not ask for your name or other personally identifying information at any point. However, should you feel uncomfortable with any question, please feel free not to respond, and go on to the next question.
THANK YOU FOR AGREEING TO HELP US WITH OUR "DATING" SURVEY!
WARNING:
While you are online, as is the case with all Internet communications, the security of your responses to this survey cannot be guaranteed. However, we have made every effort to protect the security of your responses. Once transmitted, all data are stored as numbers only. Because we do not ask for any individuating information or record IP addresses, our staff cannot identify any respondent based on submitted data. Thus, your responses cannot be traced to your computer or you.
If you have any questions or comments about this survey contact
Dr. Deborah Davis
or
Michael Vernon
at The University of Nevada, Reno.
I. ABOUT YOU:
SEX:
Male
Female
AGE:
HAVE YOU EVER SENT A RESPONSE TO THIS SURVEY BEFORE?
Yes
No
ARE YOU AT YOUR COMPUTER ALONE?
Yes
No
RACE:
Caucasian
African American
Hispanic
American Indian
Asian
Other
SEXUAL ORIENTATION:
Heterosexual
Homosexual
Bisexual
Transsexual
YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS:
I am dating one person
I am dating multiple people
I am single and not dating
I am married
I am married but seeing others
BEFORE WE ASK YOU ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCES IN RELATIONSHIPS WE WOULD LIKE TO ASK A FEW QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR GENERAL FEELINGS THAT MAY AFFECT YOUR ATTITUDES OR BEHAVIOR. PLEASE INDICATE THE DEGREE TO WHICH YOU AGREE WITH EACH STATEMENT.
I am not a worrier
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I often feel inferior to others
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9
strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
When I am under a great deal of stress, sometimes I feel like I am going to pieces
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I rarely feel lonely or blue
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I often feel tense and jittery
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
Sometimes I feel completely worthless
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I rarely feel fearful or anxious
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I often get angry at the way people treat me
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
Too often, when things go wrong, I get discouraged and feel like giving up
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I am seldom sad or depressed
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
I often feel helpless and want someone else to solve my problems
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
At times I have been so ashamed I just wanted to hide
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strongly disagree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . strongly agree
YOUR EXPERIENCES IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS:
THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS CONCERN HOW YOU TYPICALLY FEEL IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS (NOT JUST WHAT YOU FEEL NOW OR IN YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP). PLEASE INDICATE THE DEGREE TO WHICH YOU AGREE WITH EACH STATEMENT
I AM NERVOUS WHEN PARTNERS GET TOO CLOSE TO ME
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I FEEL COMFORTABLE DEPENDING ON ROMANTIC PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I PREFER NOT TO BE TOO CLOSE TO ROMANTIC PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I FEEL COMFORTABLE SHARING MY PRIVATE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS WITH MY PARTNER
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I PREFER NOT TO SHOW A PARTNER HOW I FEEL DEEP DOWN
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I AM VERY COMFORTABLE BEING CLOSE TO ROMANTIC PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
JUST WHEN MY PARTNERS START TO GET CLOSE TO ME I FIND MYSELF PULLING AWAY
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I TRY TO AVOID GETTING TOO CLOSE TO MY PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I FIND IT DIFFICULT TO ALLOW MYSELF TO DEPEND ON ROMANTIC PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I USUALLY DISCUSS MY PROBLEMS AND CONCERNS WITH MY PARTNERS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I DON'T MIND ASKING ROMANTIC PARTNERS FOR COMFORT, ADVICE, OR HELP
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
IT HELPS TO TURN TO MY ROMANTIC PARTNERS IN TIMES OF NEED
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I WORRY ABOUT BEING ABANDONED
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I WORRY A LOT ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I WORRY THAT ROMANTIC PARTNERS WON'T CARE ABOUT ME
AS MUCH AS I CARE ABOUT THEM
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5
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7
Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I WORRY A FAIR AMOUNT ABOUT LOSING MY PARTNER
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I OFTEN WANT TO MERGE COMPLETELY WITH ROMANTIC PARTNERS, AND THIS SOMETIMES SCARES THEM AWAY
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I WORRY ABOUT BEING ALONE
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
WHEN I'M NOT INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP,
I FEEL SOMEWHAT ANXIOUS AND INSECURE
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5
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7
Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I NEED A LOT OF REASSURANCE THAT I AM LOVED BY MY PARTNER.
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I FIND THAT MY PARTNERS DON'T WANT TO GET AS CLOSE AS I WOULD LIKE
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
IF I CAN'T GET MY PARTNER TO SHOW INTEREST IN ME, I GET UPSET OR ANGRY
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
SOMETIMES I FEEL THAT I FORCE MY PARTNERS TO SHOW MORE FEELING, MORE COMMITMENT
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7
Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
I OFTEN WISH THAT MY PARTNER'S FEELINGS FOR ME WERE AS STRONG AS MY FEELINGS FOR HIM/HER
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Strongly Disagree.................................................Strongly Agree
IV. CHARACTERISTICS YOU WOULD WANT IN A PARTNER.
THE NEXT SECTIONS ASK YOU ABOUT THE CHARACTERISTICS YOU FIND MOST AND LEAST DESIRABLE IN A ROMANTIC PARTNER
IF YOU WERE INTERESTED
IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP.
PLEASE ANSWER EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN A RELATIONSHIP AT THE MOMENT.
HOW IMPORTANT ARE EACH OF THE FOLLOWING CHARACTERISTICS IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER?
PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS:
GENERAL PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
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Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
BODY ATTRACTIVENESS
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Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ATTRACTIVE TEETH
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PHYSICALLY FIT
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Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WEIGHT
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
YOUTHFUL
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ENERGETIC
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HEALTHY
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PERSONAL HYGENE
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CHARACTER/PERSONALITY ISSUES:
ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MENTALLY HEALTHY
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HONEST
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
RESPONSIBLE
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PREDICTABLE
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Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
RELIABLE
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
INTELLIGENT
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
KIND
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT DEPRESSED
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2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAPPY
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2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SENSITIVE
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2
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5
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT OVERLY SENSITIVE
1
2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT OFFENDED TOO EASILY
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2
3
4
5
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7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT MOODY
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2
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5
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DON’T HAVE TO “WALK ON EGGS” AROUND HIM/HER
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT FROM
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CONSIDERATE
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
FUN
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2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
INTERESTING TO TALK TO
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAS MORALS
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2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
INDEPENDENT
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2
3
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
EMOTIONALLY STABLE
1
2
3
4
5
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7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
EMOTIONALLY SECURE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR
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2
3
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7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GOOD SOCIAL SKILLS
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2
3
4
5
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7
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GOOD CONVERSATIONAL SKILLS
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2
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5
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7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CAN STAY IN CONTROL OF HIS(HER) OWN EMOTIONS
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2
3
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7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
FAMILY ORIENTED
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2
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT EMBARRASS ME AROUND OTHER PEOPLE
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2
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7
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9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I AM NOT ASHAMED TO BE WITH
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2
3
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5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I CAN BE PROUD TO BE WITH
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2
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5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT TOO JEALOUS WHEN THERE IS NO REASON FOR IT
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT SUSPICIOUS OF ME AND MY MOTIVES WITHOUT GOOD REASON
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WARM
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ROMANTIC
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LOVING
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CARING
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CARES ABOUT MY HAPPINESS
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
AFFECTIONATE
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LOVES ME COMPLETELY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I CAN LOVE COMPLETELY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
TRULY UNDERSTANDS WHO I AM
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ACCEPTS ME FOR WHO I AM
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
THINKS I AM PERFECT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T TRY TO CHANGE ME TOO MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GIVES ME LOTS OF REASSURANCE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MAKES ME FEEL SECURE AS A PERSON
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MAKES ME FEEL SECURE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T CRITICIZE ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CAN ACCEPT MY WEAKNESSES AND LOVE ME ANYWAY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHOSE WEAKNESSES I CAN ACCEPT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE FOR WHOM I CAN BE THE PERSON (S)HE WANTS ME TO BE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I FEEL I CAN BE MYSELF WITH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHO MAKES ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT MAKE ME FEEL WORSE ABOUT MYSELF
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE ME TOO MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WITH WHOM I CAN STAY IN CONTROL OF MY OWN EMOTIONS
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CAREGIVING:
SENSITIVE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT SELF-CENTERED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
UNSELFISH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CONSIDERATE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
UNDERSTANDS MY NEEDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
RESPONSIVE TO MY NEEDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEED SUPPORT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GIVES ME WHAT I ACTUALLY NEED AND NOT WHAT (S)HE THINKS I NEED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ABLE TO SATISFY MY NEEDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHOSE NEEDS I AM ABLE TO SATISFY
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
EASY TO PLEASE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT MEAN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE TO ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I WILL NOT BE EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE TO
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I WILL NOT BE PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT HURT ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I WON’T HURT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
INTIMACY:
EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
KEEPS HIS(HER) EMOTIONS TO HIM(HER)SELF
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
EMOTIONALLY EXPRESSIVE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT TOO EMOTIONALLY EXPRESSIVE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT TOO EMOTIONALLY DEMANDING
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILL NOT SMOTHER ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ALLOWS ME SUFFICIENT PRIVACY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILLING TO BE REALLY EMOTIONALLY CLOSE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEMAND TOO MUCH EMOTIONAL CLOSENESS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILLING TO BE COMPLETELY INTIMATE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEMAND TOO MUCH INTIMACY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GIVES ME LOTS OF ATTENTION
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T PAY TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SPENDS LOTS OF TIME WITH ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEMAND TOO MUCH OF MY TIME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ISN’T TOO CLINGY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T INTERFERE WITH MY OTHER IMPORTANT ACTIVITIES
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T INTERFERE WITH MY OTHER INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T WANT TO DO TOO MANY THINGS TOGETHER
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WANTS TO DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAS HIS(HER)OWN SEPARATE INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T HAVE TOO MANY SEPARATE INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T MIND IF I HAVE MY OWN SEPARATE INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAS HER OWN FRIENDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T MIND IF I HAVE MY OWN FRIENDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LET’S ME HAVE SOME SPACE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T LET ME HAVE TOO MUCH SPACE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
IS NOT CONTROLLING
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LET’S ME HAVE LOTS OF FREEDOM
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T COMPLAIN WHEN I SPEND TIME AT WORK/SCHOOL/STUDYING
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME AT WORK/SCHOOL/STUDYING (HIM)HERSELF
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T COMPLAIN WHEN I SPEND TIME ON MY OWN INTERESTS (Sports, hobbies, reading, TV, etc.)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME ON HIS(HER) OWN INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T COMPLAIN WHEN I SPEND TIME WITH OTHER FRIENDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WITH OTHER FRIENDS (HIM)HERSELF
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LET’S ME DEPEND ON HIM(HER)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEPEND ON ME TOO MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DEPENDS ON ME A LOT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
VERY INDEPENDENT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT TOO INDEPENDENT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LET’S ME KEEP MY INDEPENDENCE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
COMMITTMENT:
DOESN’T MIND IF I DATE MORE THAN ONE PERSON
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DATE ANYONE ELSE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILLING TO MAKE A STRONG COMMITMENT TO ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WANTS ME TO MAKE A STRONG COMMITMENT TO HIM(HER)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEMAND TOO MUCH COMMITMENT FROM ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILLING TO MAKE AS MUCH COMMITMENT AS I DO
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WANTS TO GET MARRIED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T WANT TO GET MARRIED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CONFLICT
SOMEONE I WOULD NOT FIGHT WITH VERY MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HANDLES DISAGREEMENTS WELL
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T PICK FIGHTS OFTEN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T COMPLAIN MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T FIGHT WITH HOSTILITY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
FIGHTS FAIR
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
TRULY LISTENS TO ME AND UNDERSTANDS WHAT I SAY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ACKNOLWEDGES THE VALIDITY OF MY CONCERNS AND POINTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T BECOME IRRATIONAL DURING ARGUMENTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PREFERS TO HANDLE CONFLICTS CALMLY AND RATIONALLY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T GET PHYSICALLY VIOLENT DURING ARGUMENTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T SCREAM AND YELL TOO MUCH DURING ARGUMENTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CAN SOLVE PROBLEMS CONSTRUCTIVELY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T GET TOO ANGRY AND UPSET WHEN WE DISCUSS PROBLEMS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
REALIZES THAT NOT EVERYTHING CAN BE HANDLED WITH LOGIC AND RATIONALITY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T BECOME MEAN AND INSULTING DURING DISAGREEMENTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T HURT MY FEELINGS DELIBERATELY DURING DISAGREEMENTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I CAN FIGHT FAIR WITH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUAL ISSUES:
FAITHFUL TO ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
I CAN BE FAITHFUL TO HIM(HER)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MEETS MY SEXUAL NEEDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUAL ENTHUSIASM
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUALLY SKILLFUL
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SEXUALLY ADVENTUROUS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES KINKY SEX
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T WANT KINKY SEX
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES TO HAVE SEX FREQUENTLY
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2
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4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T DEMAND TOO MUCH SEX
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PASSIONATE
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SENSUAL
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2
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4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
AFFECTIONATE DURING SEX
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WANTS STRAIGHT SEX RATHER THAN FOREPLAY AND CUDDLING
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
CAREER/FINANCES
AMBITIOUS
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GOOD CAREER POTENTIAL
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
OCCUPATION
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
INCOME
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PROPERTY AND OTHER POSSESSIONS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
GENEROUS WITH MONEY
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT EXPECT ME TO PAY FOR TOO MUCH
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
PAYS FOR MOST OF OUR JOINT ACTIVITIES
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT DRAIN MY FINANCIAL RESOURCES
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT NEED FINANCIAL SUPPORT
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WILL SUPPORT ME FINANCIALLY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HARDWORKING
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2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR FINANCIAL RESOURCES TO MY OWN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I CAN SUPPORT THE WAY (S)HE WANTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE FOR WHOM I WON’T BE A FINANCIAL BURDEN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
RESPONSIBLE WITH MONEY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT HAVE DEBTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SOMEONE I WON’T FIGHT WITH OVER MONEY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
COMPATIBILITY:
SIMILAR GOALS IN LIFE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR DAILY LIVING HABITS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR VALUES
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR INTERESTS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR RELIGIONS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR PHILOSOPHIES OF LIFE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR INTELLIGENCE
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR EDUCATION
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
SIMILAR IN NEATNESS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
FAMILY:
FAMILY ORIENTED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
NOT TOO FAMILY ORIENTED
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
WANTS TO HAVE CHILDREN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
ALREADY HAS CHILDREN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOES NOT ALREADY HAVE CHILDREN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAS LIKEABLE FRIENDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES MY FRIENDS
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HAS A LIKEABLE FAMILY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES MY FAMILY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES MY CHILDREN
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HIS(HER) CHILDREN ARE LIKEABLE (IF (S)HE HAS ANY)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HIS(HER) FAMILY APPROVES OF ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MY FAMILY APPROVES OF HIM(HER)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HIS(HER) FRIENDS APPROVE OF ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
MY FRIENDS APPROVE OF HIM(HER)
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
HIS(HER) CHILDREN APPROVE OF ME
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS(HER) FAMILY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
DOESN’T WANT TO SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WITH HIS(HER) FAMILY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
LIKES TO SPEND TIME WITH MY FAMILY
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
Partner must not . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Partner must
have this trait have this trait
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